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Sunday, September 7, 2008
GOODBYE HANGZHOU , VISIT TO THE TEMPLE OF THE SIX BANYAN TREES, OLD CHEN HOUSE AND PROVINCIAL ART SHOPPING CENTER

“Though you say goodbye to yesterday…may you hold it in your heart forever.”  ~author unknown

Friday evening, our last night in Hangzhou , our guide arranged for us to attend the local theatre. It was a wonderful production which included music played on traditional Chinese instruments, opera, dancing, martial arts and acrobatics. The production told about the history of Hangzhou , the legend of West Lake and the story of the butterfly lovers (which Rebecca compared to Romeo and Juliet). As we entered the lobby of the theatre, we were immediately greeted by about six crew members who picked up our stroller with Sophie still in it and quickly escorted us to the front row…right in the center! All eyes were definitely on us : ) We weren’t expecting to be the VIP’s of the evening : ) Our table even had a sign on it that said VIP’s. We (meaning only us) were served all sorts of refreshments which Sophie entirely enjoyed through the entire show. We kept laughing because instead of applauding by clapping our hands, there were these plastic hand clappers that we were to shake when we liked a particular part of the performance. It really was very funny! I’ve never seen anything like it… Sophie thought the entire night was great until she had to leave her plastic clapper behind. It really was a perfect way to end our time in Hangzhou!

Saturday morning we woke to rain, and it continued until our flight left for Guangzhou that afternoon. When Rebecca picked us up at the hotel in the morning, she said, “Today we say goodbye. Maybe it rains because God is little bit sad that we say goodbye”. It really was quite emotional for us to say goodbye to Hangzhou and the birthplace of our daughter. My emotions caught me off guard in the few hours prior to leaving. I felt sadness for Sophie and the difficult beginning she has had. I felt sadness for her birth family who most likely, in an attempt to give her the medical attention she so desperately needed, placed her at the gate of the Yiwu Social Welfare Institute. A place where she would most definitely be found safely and quickly. We have taken hundreds of pictures and have some wonderful memories to share with her of our first few days together. Goodbye Hangzhou . We will always remember the gift that we’ve been given.

Today is our first full day in Guangzhou . It is home to 13 million people and is the third largest city in China . We have now joined a small group of three other families who have adopted through the waiting child program as well. Sophie is the oldest in the group as the other three children are each about a year old. Jocelyn is our new guide and seems to be a lot of fun. She arranged a group tour and shopping for us today. We first visited the Temple of the Six Banyan Trees. It is famous here in Guangzhou . There is a huge pagoda that is seventeen stories high! If you look closely, you will notice that it leans slightly to the west. Many of the local people were there worshipping, praying and burning incense. We were able to observe some of the monks performing ceremonies to bless babies. There were beautiful trees on the grounds surrounding the temple, and I particularly loved the Chinese lanterns that hung between the trees.

Next, we visited the Chen Clan Academy which is sometimes called the Chen Ancestral Hall. It was built in the late 1800’s and it was built as a gathering place for the Chen family. It was also used as a place to educate their children. Apparently, it is one of the best-preserved decorated, traditional buildings in this area. The architecture was very ornate with wood, brick and stone carvings, ceramic and lime sculptures and iron castings. We also saw some amazing embroidery. We were told that each piece took literally years and years to finish. If one mistake was made, it was completely unstitched and begun again. Wow! They were so detailed that they actually looked like paintings.

It was a welcomed relief to visit the air conditioned Provincial Art Center next. Guangzhou Province is known for its embroidery, ivory/jade carvings and porcelain. It was fun to look around and make a few small purchases. The jade jewelry is beautiful!

Tonight, we will meet our guide for a group dinner at the Cow & Bridge Restaurant. It’s been a lot of fun to see and visit the places I have read about for so long! I loved seeing all the new families at the breakfast buffet this morning! And Sophie even received her Going Home Barbie doll from the White Swan Hotel today! Absolutely loving Sophie’s giggles today…they are contagious!

When the first baby laughed for the first time, the laugh broke into thousands of pieces and they all went skipping about, and that was the beginning of fairies. ~Peter Pan

Sophie holding her Chinese passport!


Goodbye Hangzhou...


Pagoda at the Temple of the Six Banyan Trees


Statue of Buddha
at the Temple of the Six Banyan Trees


Ivory Sculpture


Sophie with Going Home Barbie

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