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“To attract good fortune, spend a new penny on an old friend, share an old pleasure with a new friend, and lift up the heart of a true friend by writing his name on the wings of a dragon.” ~Chinese Proverb
 

August 2007
~On the Wings of a Dragon~


“…lift up the heart of a true friend by writing his name on the wings of a dragon”. When I received this Chinese proverb as part of a wish for Sophie’s quilt, it made me think of the many new friends we have met as we have woven our way into this world of international adoption. So many have taken the time to answer our questions and have always responded with encouraging words of advice and wisdom. I believe that some of our best information has come from parents who have traveled this road before and have been so willing to share their knowledge with us. It goes without saying that this journey is a slow and somewhat discouraging one right now. But, it gives me hope to read the beautifully candid, real-life stories that are shared every day by those who share this common thread of Chinese adoption. Together, while we wait, may we lift each other up on the wings of a dragon.

I am continuing to collect squares and wishes for Sophie’s quilt. It’s been so much fun to see what comes in the mail each day! At last count, I had 135 squares of fabric for her quilt. I am hopeful by the end of October to have collected all I need to finish piecing her quilt. I can’t wait to see how it all comes together! It will be a perfect project for the long, winter months ahead.

Together, with the kids, we have almost filled our jar to half way again. They get excited to open it up and add any loose change they may have happened upon. For the record, I added a moon and stars charm to my bracelet this month…marking the time since we officially began our journey to Sophie. Christian wondered out loud the other day if we would ever really bring Sophie home. Someday we will, someday…

What’s New with Our Crew?

Summer passed in the blink of an eye, and before I knew it, it was time to send the kids back to school. August kept us busy soaking in last minute summer fun and getting ready for the start of another school year.

Jessica was able to go on a youth pioneer trek which was a wonderful experience and a lot of fun! She made her own skirt and bonnet (with the help of Grandma Cathy, of course) and was most certainly the only one on the trail wearing hot pink polka dots. She started HIGH SCHOOL and confidently headed out the door with her Tinker Bell lunch box in hand. When I told her that I didn’t think kids in high school took lunch boxes (especially Tinker Bell ones), she proudly said, “I don’t care. I really like my Tinker Bell lunch box”! And off she went with me wiping the tears as I remembered walking her to her first day of kindergarten. Wasn’t it just yesterday?

Nathan spent most of the month splinting, bandaging and wrapping up various family members in preparation for his First Aid merit badge test. His younger brothers were very willing to be wounded victims and thought this was great fun. “Ouch, I think I broke my forearm” became quite a joke around our house. Ian and I were just very happy that he passed the test the first time and we could check this off his list of things to do! Nathan started JR HIGH and tried to look as cool as he possibly could wearing the school uniform. He made certain that I had not packed anything embarrassing in his lunch...like Blue’s Clues drinkable yogurt. Apparently, his lunches have been passing the test because he comes home empty handed each day.

Christian became such a good swimmer this summer! He took his swimming lessons quite seriously and was able to perfect that side breathing. He was thrilled to pass that particular level of swimming and was excited to advance to the lap lane class! Christian worked very diligently on his reading this summer and was able to advance a reading level because of his hard work. What a kid will do for a daily snow cone! Christian started the third grade this year and was so proud to march off to school wearing the required tie and sweater vest. He takes his responsibilities very seriously and said, “I’m glad to be getting a proper education”... What a funny boy!

Michael and Christian are like two peas in a pod. Being only 20 months apart, they always seem to be participating in similar types of activities. Michael enjoyed his swimming lessons this summer too. He has boldly stated though that he “stinks at the backstroke”! Being on his back sends him into panic mode. He has been practicing and is improving a lot. Michael also read a lot this summer for the daily snow cone treat and was able to advance a reading level for his hard work too! Michael began the second grade this year and is boycotting the “Healthy Snack Club”. No matter what I do to encourage him to participate in this, he says, “I’m not in the Healthy Snack Club, because I don’t like healthy snacks”! Enough said.

Until next month…

“Alone we can do so little; together, we can do so much.” ~Helen Keller

Polka Dot Pioneer


Jessica's First Day of High School-10th Grade


Does Everybody Have Their Lunch?
 

Nathan's First Day of Jr. High-7th Grade


Christian's First Day of 3rd Grade


Michael's First Day of 2nd Grade

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